The Helper
This was me in 2013, 22 years old, single, and innocent. God saw it was not good for the man to be alone, so He made him an Ezer . The word Ezer in Greek can be translated as a helper or the savior . It is not similar to what we understood as the servant or a subordinate to the husband but an Ezer is a complement to the husband. From the Biblical perspective, the helper may not be contributing so much as the labor force to the household but the helper soothes a man's soul when he is chafed from day-long labor in the field. In other words, men are supposed to labor more than women while the women provide moral support and help manage the house when men are away. Thus, it was mentioned in Proverbs that wise women built up the household, and the wise one encourages whe...